We all have heard the statement - 'A friend in need is a friend indeed'. This is one among many other quotes, messages and notes that have been shared by intellectuals on friends and friendship.
We meet people at our workplace, school, parties, around of homes etc. and soon our interactions turn into friendship. I always wondered who is a friend? who can be my friend? Can I be a friend of someone?
Here is my interpretation of a FRIEND
Free to be yourself (F) - You are at your utmost comfort level, when you can be yourself and transparent with someone. You are not being judged or assumed.
Respects for who you are (R) - Every human is different, even when you are born to the same parents. It is impossible to then think that you will have someone who is a carbon copy of yourself. Respect and love for who you are, makes the bond between two people stronger.
Intelligent or intellectually gifted (I) - We constantly learn from situations, obstacles, parents, siblings and others. So how easy would it be to learn and get advised from a friend who respects you and let's you be the way you are?
Empathetic and enthusiastic (E) - When your days are not so good, all you need is an empathetic person to listen and boost up your moral. We can't assume that everyday will be bright and full of energy. Enthusiasm is viral and can help overcome low times.
Nourishment to you (N) - We constantly evolve and try hard to do the right thing. However, inertia catches up and that can make us stagnant. Not only self motivation is key but what better to have someone who helps us and is happy seeing you move to the next level.
Dependable (D) - If you have someone who is there when you need the most without any ifs and buts, you need to feel luckiest in this world. This is hard to find as we get so much involved into our own lives that we seldom stop and think for someone else.
A true friend can be your better half, sibling, colleague, senior, junior, classmate or someone who you have met. It is the characteristics of the person that matters most not the relationship that matters. A true friend is a blessing and can help you to be a transformed person.
I remember this great thought - 'Friends like books are few and well chosen'
Would love to get your views and thoughts.
