HOMEMAKERS - Saga of unsung heroes

Taking care of kids, doing dishes, washing clothes, cleaning the home, cooking meals, mending among countless other chores seems like work that should be immediately outsourced. These are not what most of us would not like to do on a daily basis? Wait, what about doing these with a smile and not feeling tired and complaining? Oh not done yet! you will not be remunerated for this?

This is what millions of women worldwide do everyday. I am referring to all the moms, wives, sisters, friends - Homemakers.

Many may say, so what is new? General response - they are housewives (I don't like this word personally) and that is their job. Put yourself in their shoes and just do this for one week. I am sure you will never complain in life again.

We forget and possibly never realize that their sacrifice, effort and ability to juggle multiple tasks turns a house to a home. We seldom remember that they are equally if not more talented than you and me, could have walked out to do a corporate job and left the chores to someone. They made a choice (may be in some cases did not have an option) and took care of the nest where you and I want to come back and feel loved.

Will anything change? Can we make a difference? Yes and yes we can


1. Respect - The least we could do is respect them and their sacrifice. Kind words with some love goes a long way. An acknowledgement of the work done always motivates. This BTW also applies to corporate work and life.

2. Involve - They may not be responsible for the financial needs of a family, but they are responsible for optimally running your finances and reducing cost. Involving and making them a part of home decision making process gives them a sense of pride. You will be shocked to see how many great ideas gets generated.

3. Patience - How often do you get frustrated with work and life at our workplace? Yes we all have our days. It is not easy to manage and run a home 365 days a year with nothing in return. Lending a patient ear is all that is needed to make these heroes feel heard. This helps them to get over the stress and anxiety.

4. Surprises - Try and surprise them as often you can - make the bed, cook a hearty breakfast, make a cup of tea, do something they love. We all want to be loved and pampered. Make them feel special and loved.

We remember the heroes on the border who sacrifice their lives, so that we can live free. Let's start supporting, being there for our homemakers who relentlessly work hard to make the difference in our lives. With their support we are able to reach our professional goals.

It is these unsung heroes in our lives, that have made us what we are and taught us values of life. Imagine a world where we are all free elements and did not have an anchor or fulcrum. The house would never become a home.

A big thank you to all my heroes for making me who I am today. Your sacrifice has made the difference.